Everyone knows the postgrad life is not exactly what we imagined….or what we had mentally and emotionally prepared ourselves for; so, this segment of Expectation vs. Real Life will focus on the dating scene and what to actually expect. It is not at all like the Disney suggested. Although, those princesses were basically pre-teens, so I guess we should have already accepted that we missed our prince charming.
Friday Nights
Expected: Going out every week and flirting the night away with your large group of friends
Reality: Getting home from work and barely being able to make it to the couch to turn on Netflix
VS.
Dating Apps
Expectation: Mutually swiping right for a select few compatible mates
Reality: Aggressively swiping right for everyone because you are desperate and no one swipes back
VS.
Flirting
Expectation: Professional, confident, likable, and cute
Reality: Completely oblivious to everything because it’s been so long and you are totally behind the times
VS.
Compatibility
Expectation: Opposites attract, like-forces attract, you can make anything work
Reality: Anything and everything that is just a little bit different between you two is a GIANT pet-peeve
VS.
Meeting “The One”
Expectation: Some adorable, romantic, once-in-a-lifetime moment
Reality: Making a pact as children to be stuck marrying each other if you weren’t married by 30
VS.
First Dates
Expectation: Romantic, unique adventure that ends with staring up at the stars
Reality: Typical chain restaurant that ends with you two walking separately back to your car
VS.
Date Conversations
Expectation: Cute and sexy 20-questions
Reality: Complaining about loans, lack of money, a horrible job, and life as a twentysomething
VS.
Social Media
Expectation: Candid photos showing how in love you both are, whilst showing off how much fun you are having in life
Reality: Continuous and unappealing selfies that make you two look more like a mess than anything else
VS.
Have anymore expectation vs. real life dating scenarios? Comment below!
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